Back in 1976 I read “The Vision” by David Wilkerson I was 15 at the time and was attracted to the book because it had been written by the man behind “The Cross and the switchblade” story.’ As a teenager I had been captivated by “The Cross and the switchblade”. The story spoke of a Christianity I had never encountered I was excited by this pastor who decided to give up watching television in the evening and devote his time to studying his Bible and prayer.
Although it was 35 years ago that I read “the vision” I have a couple of clear recollections of how the book affected me. The book was all to do with prophecy and much of it seemed to go too far, I remember being uncomfortable with some of the suggestions that the author was making. Even as a teenager who wasn’t properly saved there was something about the book that didn’t seem quite right.
Having said all of that, I can clearly remember some of the predictions contained within the book. In 1974 when the book was written censorship of the cinema and television was quite severe. If you lived in the UK you had access to three television channels and they had a heavily enforced watershed – programs with mature themes came on after 9 PM. In America censorship was even tighter. Wilkerson predicted that within a few decades we would have access to hard-core pornography both in the cinema and on television. Of course one development Wilkerson didn’t predict was the advances in technology that make censorship impossible. The arrival of the first of all videos and then DVDs, cable television, satellite channels finally followed by the Internet makes pornography accessible to all. Once upon a time if you wanted to buy pornography you had to visit a specialist shop, a shop you might be seen entering, a shop where you would have to carry out a transaction with a living human being. Not today, anyone with the most basic knowledge of IT and access to the Internet can within seconds of going online start looking at hard-core porn.
Maybe it is this ready access to pornography that has desensitised us and done away with things like ‘watersheds’. Music videos, television adverts, soap operas, situation comedies, and tabloid newspapers – almost every medium you can think of constantly smudges the line between what is acceptable and what is pornography. I’ve noticed recently that television programs that carry a 15 certificate are often broadcast in the middle of the afternoon. In addition Sky television hosts what can only be described as traditional ‘peep-shows’ 24/7 – unless parents have the common sense to block these channels anyone with access to the remote control can watch them. As for the music channels the pop videos they show are very suggestive and the lyrics even more so. Mike Stock (songwriter and record producer) recently commented on this phenomenon:
“The recent final of Britain’s Got Talent was broadcast at 7.30 pm on a Saturday evening, featured two finalists who were 11 and 12 years old, and was watched by millions of children of about the same age or even younger.
Yet the producers still thought it appropriate that the guest-star Nicole Scherzinger, formerly of the raunchy band the Pussycat Dolls, was dressed in a knicker-skimming mini-dress, bumping and grinding her hips suggestively through her latest hit, while singing ‘Come on baby, put your hands on my body . . . right there’.
Her whispering ‘I like it dirty’ seemed as unsurprising as it was superfluous, and was, suffice to say, wholly inappropriate for the programme’s family audience.
Ms Scherzinger’s gyrations prompted me to voice my concerns about the insidious impact the music industry was having on our children — that the lyrics of pop songs had become too sexualised, that music videos had effectively turned into soft-core pornography, and that the combined impact of both is almost certainly having a hugely damaging effect on our children.”
The thing that concerns me more than anything else is that our children and young people are growing up with a wholly inaccurate idea of what sex is. Boys will expect their partners to behave in a certain way and girls will feel pressured into doing things with which they feel comfortable. The idea of gently exploring ways of expressing love in a physical way has all but passed away.
Now I know there are many who will argue with me, there are people in the world today who believe that sex is a means of enjoying ourselves no different from eating food or listening to music. There are some who live in open relationships and are quite willing to share their partner sexually in much the same way they would encourage them to go out for a meal with someone else.
Of course pornography is not new; neither is the link between pornography and immoral sex, look at the following text from Ezekiel 23:
“She saw men portrayed on a wall, figures of Chaldeans portrayed in red, 15 with belts around their waists and flowing turbans on their heads; all of them looked like Babylonian chariot officers, natives of Chaldea. 16 As soon as she saw them, she lusted after them and sent messengers to them in Chaldea. 17 Then the Babylonians came to her, to the bed of love, and in their lust they defiled her.”
I am of course speaking from a Christian perspective, not only from a Christian perspective but from a Salvationist perspective. My recent posting on covenants in relation to doctrine and Christian ceremony caused something of a stir. How do we feel about our covenants in relation to sex and pornography? The following three paragraphs are taken from the salvation soldiers’ covenant, the “Articles of War”
“I will be responsive to the Holy Spirit’s work and obedient to His leading in my life, growing in grace through worship, prayer, service and the reading of the Bible. I will make the values of the Kingdom of God and not the values of the world the standard for my life.
I will uphold Christian integrity in every area of my life, allowing nothing in thought, word or deed that is unworthy, unclean, untrue, profane, dishonest or immoral.
I will abstain from alcoholic drink, tobacco, the non-medical use of addictive drugs, gambling, pornography, the occult and all else that could enslave the body or spirit.”
As I write this blog I am sitting in my study in an empty house, my vocation provides little accountability other than that which I acknowledge from above and that which I impose upon myself. If I wanted to look at pornography then I am only a few keyboard clicks away from an almost unlimited supply. The devil can tempt me to look but according to Paul in his letter to the Corinthians in chapter 10 of his letter,
“No temptation has overtaken you except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you can endure it. “
There would be a certain pleasure in giving in to the temptation, if the temptation wasn’t attractive then by definition it would not be a temptation. Holiness allows me to turn my back on temptation and embrace the will of God.
Of course it was not always like this, there was a time when my life was riddled with sin, there was a time when I made Paul’s hapless character in Romans 7 look like a Mother Theresa! However experience has taught me that giving in to temptation leads to misery and ultimately death. Whereas holiness provides us with a life of inexplicable joy in which we are used by God to positively touch the hearts and minds of other people.
Those of us who are Salvation Army Officers and Soldiers let’s make sure that we are being true to the voluntary promises we have made to God. Sadly it is impossible to walk through life today without being confronted by sexual imagery, turning a page of a newspaper or changing the channel on the television can reveal images we would never choose to look at. Let us not confuse temptation with sin.
As James reminds in chapter 1 of his letter the desire to do wrong in itself is not a sin but if it is left unchallenged it will develop into sin which ultimately has the power to destroy our faith.
“each person is tempted when they are dragged away by their own evil desire and enticed. 15 Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.”
Let’s not be deceived by the subtle changes in opinion around this, let’s not make excuses for ourselves, let’s not blame nature, and DNA, the weaknesses we inherited from our original parents. Let’s not call it stress relief or relaxation but let’s be completely aware that “any man or woman who looks a member of the opposite sex lustfully has already committed adultery with them in their hearts.
In a world of shifting values,
There are standards that remain,
I believe that holy living
By God’s grace we may attain.
All would hear the Holy Spirit
If they listen to his voice,
Every Christian may be Christlike
And in liberty rejoice.
Grace and peace, Andrew